What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships?

Here is what some Yahoo users are saying about this particular topic....

"trusting toooo fast."

By:Kelly

"The biggest mistake is not being completely open and honest."

By :bashnick

"Bad communication"

By :kenna 4 life

"Females become infatuated too quickly and tend to be sort of clingy.
Guys look to physical intimacy too quickly."

By: cheree K

"Talk about themselves too much and not listen."

By :VY

"cheating and trust"

By :FosterFr...

"lack of patience"

By :me anair

"not letting your partner live his/her life
being too needy
not knowing that it is all part of a game"

By :anavicko...

"Making that person the sole responsiblitly of their entertainment, life, and friendships. I have seen people make the guy/girl the only person and thing they do in their life.....big mistake. Make sure that you have your own "hobbies" and keep your friends. Take time for yourselves outside the relationship."

By :MiZmeL

"becoming clingly and not having a life of there own, i think that messes relationships up terribly, when "i" becomes "we" all the time and u don't have your own seperate friends and life, i think its healthy too have your own lives and your life together because you dont become dependent on the person you are with..."

By:Adot S

"Failure to trust. If there is not trust their is no relationship."

By :Fritters

"To not cherish the person and to keep secrets from them"

By :surfbeac...

"Trusting the other person too fast.
Becoming too clingy, making that person your whole life and abandoning friends.
Moving too fast, then wondering why they leave you.
Not talking about important things."

By :Addie_De...

"Women love too soon either with their heart or their mind which causes them to be insecure and can be very persistant when accusing a guy in a relationship even when the guy is not cheating...

Men fall in love with sex more then heart...Which causes them to cheat..Men can be in love with a girl and still find a way to cheat with a woman he has no feelings for at all. not all men do this

Women are jus too sensitive and men are not..so a woman may complain tooo much about something that is maybe imporatant to her and a man might not think its important and becomes insensitive toward whatever the women is complaining about. which causes her to say the guy is insensitive and dont care about her feelings and causes him to say she complains too much about nothing.

Usually those are the main reasons...not all are like this."

By :kellybro...

"Becoming too comfortable, not treating their partners like their best friends and being kind to them, most people would never be as rude to their friends as they are to their partners.

Ignoring each other, not nurturing the relationship, become complacent and sloppy in the relationship.

Which leads to less romance, less interest and ultimately boredom, not more sparks. Not dating each other anymore, or treating each other like someone special.

Believing no matter what they do the other person will forgive them.

Spending more time with friends than with their partner, and talking about personal details of the relationship with others.

Many also get into a negative thing where it becomes a habit to constantly complain and make negative comments about your partner to friends, until you cant get yourself out of that negative mindset.

Not working at maintaining the relationships, loving, supportive, great relationships do NOT just happen. Smart people work at keeping the love and interest alive.

Another mistake, believing it is up to your partner to MAKE you happy, and you dont have to reciprocate or make an effort. Believing that if its "meant to be" it will be just non stop happiness, over the moon thrilling excitement and no problems, so the second a problem pops up people walk because "they arent happy"."

By :isotope2...